HIJAB AS AN ISLAMOPHOBIA AND
THE PERSONAL EXPERIENCES OF MUSLIM WOMEN
Some people believe
that the Islamic faith is oppressive to women. In the west, particularly in
France, the Hijab or headscarf that many Muslim women wear has become a symbol
of this perceived oppression. This blog explores the experience of wearing the Hijab
of Muslim Women of Pakistan and Sri Lanka. It will draw attention
that why some Muslim women consider it a mark of empowerment, what kind of
motivation they have to wear the Hijab, and how the Hijab protects them.
SHAZHANA
SALEETH
I'm Shazhana
Saleeth, from Sri Lanka. I'm a student. I started wearing the hijab during my
teenage. Since I'm a Muslim and I was brought up in a religious background my
parents explained to me the concept of the hijab and after that, I started to
wear the hijab.
In the beginning, I
wore a hijab as they taught me. They didn't force me to wear a hijab but I
obeyed the religious commandments as my parents taught me. So, I continued to
wear a hijab. And when I started to learn about Islam, I started to realize the
rationale and logic behind the hijab. Whatever the crime happening now around
the globe to women, proved to me the value of wearing a hijab. Our creator
knows what's best for us. It is also a scientific and logical belief.
Psychology explains to us the fact that whatever we wear has an impact on our
thinking and behavior. Wearing hijab changes our behavior in a very positive
way, I realized it. So, now I would say Hijab is my choice. Choice of dignity
and modesty!
I feel secure and
protected when I wear the hijab. Islam gives the proper dignity and status to
women. And it is the way of life, which regards the women as a pearl to be well
protected. Also, on one hand, it's a sign of 'haya' shyness and modesty for
women. On the other hand, it makes us stronger and more courageous to face the
challenges in our lives.
I would suggest
wearing a hijab to all my sisters whoever reads this if you are not wearing it.
Also, I would like to remind you, that it should be a choice for the sake of
our creator, not a forceful effort. Read and learn more about it you'll get
convinced and realize what the real meaning of hijab is and make a
life-changing choice to seek the best in this world and Aakhira! May Allah make
us all amongst the people who earned the pleasure of Allah, and protect us from
the temporary, evil, and obsessive materialistic desires Amen!
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I'm a girl in her
late teens. I started wearing a hijab from my 12th age. When I started wearing
I wore it just because it was a culture in my area. But later on, I understood
the importance of the hijab which is the reason why I have never taken it off
in front of a non-mahram.
Whenever someone
asks me why do you cover myself I give them a very simple example, will insects
approach a candy that is wrapped properly or the opened, uncovered candy?
Insects will
approach the unwrapped one. So, I consider the hijab my wrapper which protects
me from all sorts of lusty sights.
When did someone
ask me why would I recommend them to cover? For that question also I would
approach them with another illustration.
Do you put a gem
carelessly on road or will you beautifully protect it, keep it wrapped inside a
safety locker? Even when you have to expose the gem, you won't bring it out
barely, rather you'll place it engraved on a gold ring wear the areas to be
visible would be out and other areas would be covered so that the gem would
remain safe and secure.
Don't you consider
yourself a gem? Aren't you a precious creation of Al-Musawwir? Didn't he design
you so beautifully? Why would you let that beauty be admired by everyone who
doesn't deserve it?
Precious ones need
protection. If you consider yourself precious, protect yourself with a hijab.
AYESHA
NAZIR
I'm Ayesha Nazir,
21 years old, I am a student. I started the hijab at the age of 17 years.
I don't want to go
into sins, that thing motivates me the most, I want to be that lady who is
confident, topper and a Hijab, The most interesting thing was that I want to
challenge myself and I put myself into trouble without the Hub of Allah SWT and
the most beautiful part is that He gave me his Love and Rahma. The hijab always
protects me from sins of public and private life. I realize all the time that I
am wearing the Hub of Allah.
I will suggest all
Muslim young girls wear Hijab because it not only makes them different but also
helps others to respect them more than anybody.
Hijab is my pride.
May Allah SWT accept it. Amen
(Video recorded by aforementioned responder to share the experience of Wearing The Hijab)
JAVARIA
ARIF
I am Javaria Arif
and I completed my graduation in Mathematics. Currently, I am serving my
country through the profession of teaching. Alhamdulillah
I started to wear a
hijab after my matriculation at the age of 15. During the whole journey of my
education, I have the experience of wearing the Hijab. When I went to
University (co-education), I was one of the few female students who wore the
Hijab. No doubt, sometimes I am attracted to showing my beauty to everyone like
many other female students but the thing that always stopped me is my family's
dignity because I belonged to a religious family. Alhamdulillah. I believe that
sometimes other than Islamic teaching, girls need some kind of experienced
motivation from their elder women and for this, I have my mother who always
teaches me many good things for my successful life in this world and hereafter.
Hijab is the beauty
of a Muslim woman and when you wear hijab people respect you a lot especially
men. So, these things motivate me to wear a hijab.
The hijab protects
me because when I wear a hijab I feel more comfortable than without a hijab.
Yes, I suggest other Muslim women wear hijab because in hijab women look more
beautiful.
SUNDAS
NAYYAB
I am Sundas Nayyab,
27 years old, working as a Lecturer at a Government institute. I started
wearing a hijab at the age of 14 when I was a matric student. Hijab protect me
and made me unique from other religions. A hijab always protects me I feel much
easier by wearing a hijab. I consider this thing to motivate myself to wear
Hijab and that is "the Hijab is the identification of Muslim Women and
I don't want to lose this identification".
Yes, I strongly
recommend the hijab to other Muslim women because it's a beautiful sign of
Muslim women. It gives you more beauty. I would also like to add this thing,
parental teachings are very important for this type of activity, if every mother
or father starts teaching their daughters the benefits of the Hijab in this
world and hereafter from their childhood, then more daughters will be able to
sustain their identification.
TAHIRA
KHALID
This is Tahira
Khalid. I'm 21 years old and a student of BS botany Semester 7th in Government
College University Lahore. I started the hijab after FSC. On my first day at
GCU, I decided to wear a hijab. People usually asked me, "Have you any
orders from your family to wear hijab?" And I always replied, "No,
it's my personal choice. I don't feel comfortable without wearing a
hijab".
In class 12th, I
read the famous novel "JANNAT K PATTY" and this was my turning point.
I got the most satisfactory answer from this novel and that was " I wear
hijab because Allah likes women who wear hijab". Most important, the hijab
is protection. It protects us from evil people and shows us as Islamic girls.
It also bounds us to not be free with random boys and helps us to have a
positive attitude toward others.
I suggest girls do
hijabs as It helps women to survive in this society respectfully and to become
beautiful women.
RIZWANA
SARFRAZ
I'm Rizwana
Sarfraz. I'm 22 years old. Currently, I have submitted my thesis and I am CSS
Aspirant. I belong to a well-educated and religious family. So, Pardah is my
family's legacy as well. Till my school level, I used to follow a school
uniform that was completed with a dupatta and stroller scarf. From Intermediate
I used to wear Abaya and Hijab with Niqab also. Now Hijab has been my identity
and with Abaya, I feel comfortable and secure.
Yes, Hijab is a
matter of pride for me as well as Abaya. I have a collection of different
abayas and strollers.
What I see here is
that my class fellows used to wear an abaya and hijab but after 2 to 3 three
semesters they were completely different personalities with tight dresses, dyed
and straight hair, etc...Even once I was trolled by my class fellow from Lahore
that we all are now wearing dresses and look modern only you are wearing Abaya
and hijab, don't you have dresses to wear??? I laughed and replied what you
wear is your choice, and what would I wear should be my choice. I belong to a
well-earning family as well as I am the only sister of three brothers.
I was committed
enough that I would not do that from the start wear abaya and in the end, show
myself to everyone in the university. Because I believe that Islam considers
women very precious like diamonds and diamonds should be wrapped under covers
so that no one can have access to open the cover and see the diamond. Secondly,
I don't know why but I believe as long as we women will protect our beauty it
will be long-lasting and as soon as it would be open to every hungry eye we
will be lost our attractiveness.
Yes, I will suggest
other Muslim Women wear Hijab as we are going somewhere else that's opposite to
our religion. In the end, I would love to say something that my dear Girls!
Instead of showing ourselves to others, we should have the confidence that yes!
I'm precious enough so that everyone cannot see my beauty. And this confidence
is more beneficial both in this world and in the Akhirah.
NUKHLA
FIRDOUS
I am 22 years old
and a student by profession. I started wearing a hijab when I was in 8th class.
My family was my motivation behind wearing a hijab. Hijab is actually for the
protection of females.
In Quran in hijab
ayah the words:
ذَٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰ أَن يُعْرَفْنَ فَلَا يُؤْذَيْنَ
"That is
near for them to be known and not to be offended."
That shows that the
hijab is for protection. Alhamdulillah hijab is my protection.
Allah ordered
females to wear hijabs. This is a source of protection for them. Yes, I also
suggest Muslim women must wear hijabs. You cannot imagine how the feeling of
protection or safety in a hijab without its wearing so must do veil.
ANILA
FATIMA
I'm Anila Fatima, 22ys old and a graduate student. I started wearing a hijab when I was in 8th class. In the beginning, my mother asked me to wear a hijab as it is obligatory in İslam. But when I have grown up I realized this is an order by Allah SWT to do Pardah. Then from my 1st year, I started wearing a hijab of my choice and I'll say Alhamdulillah that Allah selected me for this deed.
Some reasons made
me wear a hijab. 1stly this is Allah's order. 2ndly as every order of Allah is
for our betterment I realized that this is also for our betterment. So being a
Muslim girl is the largest factor to wear a hijab.
Yes! İn my opinion,
it protects us. As we feel relaxed when we are in hijabs, especially in the
veil. We don't feel much awkward if someone looks at our face as we knew it's
covered. Moreover, people also get the clue that this girl is within her
boundaries. And wearing a hijab also limits us in a good way as we knew that if
we do a hijab then we must have to follow a few rules being a hijabi Muslim
girl.
Yes! For sure.
Every girl should do a hijab not for the people but for herself because if
Allah has ordered us to wear a hijab then it's beneficial for us of course.
Every girl should understand the importance of the hijab as a Muslim girl.
Hijab protects us and stops us from many evil deeds.
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I am a 23-year-old
girl. I am a student. I started wearing the hijab at fourteen. I don't know
exactly but even before starting wearing Hijab I wanted to start it as soon as
possible because it fascinated me.
It helps me to stay within my limits without even realizing it. I feel more confident, dignified, and protective. Nowadays it's a common and very unethical act that anyone can capture you in any condition on their camera without your realization or permission. Wearing a hijab makes me feel free of all such worries as I know that I am always in an appropriate getup with my face covered. We cannot stop others but we can make ways easy for ourselves.
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I am a Muslim Girl.
I have recently completed my graduation. I started wearing Hijab when I was 7
years old. First of all, the teachings of Islam motivated me to wear a hijab.
Secondly, the big motivation was my family, where all women wear Hijab.
Surely, it protects
me. I feel confident in my Hijab. Most women comments it is not necessary to
cover the face, but It is an order of Allah. At the revelation about Hijab, All
Sahabiya
HIRA
MOBEEN
I am Hira Mobeen
and I am a student of Bs (Hons) at Govt. College University Lahore. I am 21
years old. I belong to a very humble background. I started wearing Hijab at the
age of 15 when I started college. Initially, I started wearing Hijab because I
had to go to the academy and it was quite uncomfortable for me to go outside
without Hijab. But over time, I learned that it is a religious obligation to
cover ourselves properly.
Now, wherever I go,
I feel like the hijab is protecting me and I believe that there is always some
benefit in everything Islam asks us to do. I will also suggest other girls wear
hijab and I am sure they will also feel a kind of peace in it.